D I S C Couple's Profiling and Coaching Process
Dear Couples:
Are you committed to taking your relationship to a different level from where you currently are?
I believe every relationship needs the type of "fine tuning" that I am best known for as a consultant in DISC Personality Profiling.
It makes sense that I only work with couples where both people are truly committed to growing and nurturing a healthy relationship.
In my role as Facilitator, I participate along side you as a trained, neutral observer, simply noting and sharing what I am able to see.
I guarantee that whatever shows up as any "challenge" is simply an unconscious reaction to the differences in two people’s styles. That you are different is the good news – and it can be the bad news too. The question is, how are your differences occurring for you?
While people are always attracted because of their differences, this is what almost always gets in the way after the "honeymoon" period – no matter how long you have been together.
Think of DISC this way: To maintain excellence in the operation of your valuable car, you take it in for regular maintenance, right? So, why not invest the same commitment to getting your even more valuable relationship "tuned up" on a regular basis!
It is what really "smart" couples do!
When people call me, it tells me there is a lot of love and commitment to making that relationship "sing". I just bring out the song that isn’t being sung and put new arrangements and full orchestrations behind the ones that may need jazzing up!
It’s YOUR life! You may as well have the one you want… and LOVE!
And I guarantee that with work and my insights, the love will continue to come out of it – bigger and brighter than ever before – and, as long as you both are committed to the process, it will get easier and easier as you go along.
Knowing your behavioral style helps me to help you, to increase the potential for a higher percentage of wins, joy, and harmony in your relationship.
During our interactions, I will help you identify how to avoid frustration and to design your personal relationship communications, so that each of you feels you are winning and not compromising your own happiness in order to avoid conflict or frustration.
I start by focusing on what works for the two of you, then work on bringing out more of the qualities that initially attracted you, to increase your satisfaction on a day to day basis.
Millions of people have found this successful and I know you will too.
"How much time will it take me to complete a Profile?"
A Profile Input usually takes no more than 10 minutes.
What takes place after that may involve a couple hours - first you may want to take around ½ hour to review each profile together. This helps you to see how your partner responded, and offers him or her an insight into your own responses.
Then you send them into me, so that I can complete my review and assessment. After that, I’ll return your profile by email so you know that what the profile says is truly talking about the person "standing in your shoes."
There is also the option to receive an audio link to listen to as you read through your profile, which will illuminate what you see there and help you better understand your DISC graphs and the other pages of the profile.
Next, I'll arrange that we meet for 1-2 hours – either in person or by phone – so we can apply what you have learned to your personal situation and design the strategy to use in the future.
"How much does all this cost me?"
The fee for a COUPLE’S PROFILE and COACHING SESSION varies, depending on the package and service you choose*.
*(Members of special groups may be entitled to a special discount on their initial session. Please click here for more information.)
Payment schedules may include:
Your Couples profiles and our initial consultation.
Extra sessions for coaching with fees determined by the number of sessions, at an hourly rate.
A monthly "coaching package" which guarantees up to 1 hour per month of private time with me by phone for questions – either individually or as a couple. You can also use this time to handle other issues or to talk about how you might do things differently than what your present habits dictate for you. This continuing education fee has a six month minimum.
"What kind of results can we expect?"
The results are many and with your new understanding, you can expect to see:
- a reduction in the number of "reactive" interactions (i.e. anger, dictating, sulking, evading, or attacking – which is normal behavior for different styles when under pressure).
- an increase the incidents of joy, happiness, and satisfaction in working and living together, for as long as you think about and use what you learn from me.
Your relationship is important to me. I know it can be a happy and joyous lifetime bond.
By choosing to go forward with me, we can work together to make a HUGE difference in your happiness, and your relationship!
Click here to contact me about Personality Profiling for your relationship.
Cheers!
Carol Dysart